I let it go on. Get what you can from whats left of the relationship and move on. She swore nothing sexual but all she cared about was her boyfriend who works the other shift and was very defensive. Monogamy not part of a mans nature. A text came in on his phone that read Sorry about our fight today. I wish you happiness for the future and am sorry that this man is being such a loser. Jan, you are correct in a round about way. I do little special things for him. Due to financial problems, him and I were living with his parents the last few years and in early October of this year, I moved out. So I was upset, but continued to date him. I dont believe the things he says he wants to improve on because its now Aug 2014, almost a year since i found out all the crap that came out over the months of Nov and Dec 2014, he doesnt plan romantic wkends, he doesnt talk to me much and when he does, it feels like excuses for why he doesnt do anything not enough money (which is BS) not enough time, what do i do with the kids, im tired, i work a lot, etc etc. I dont like his job because he has accepted gifts from other women and is a server at an asian restaurant. Why hold on to a bad relationship? Im still having sex with him,I know I should be using condoms..Im cheating. It sounds like your marriage is pretty much finished unless your very forgiving. I have so much respect for you, and for what youve survived! He wrote The Truth about Cheating because he wanted to empower women by showing them how men think which includes why husbands cheat on their wives. Men love to look at younger, better bodied women. What woman on here, who has suffered seeing her husband cheat by virtue of finding photos, text messages or any other way would tell you to have an affair with a married man? I was left empty. I completely snapped. Is he bluffing or what?.I beleive that if he really wants to leave he will leave now! Put simply, if he has been cheating, this tool is likely to make it immediately obvious. The problem today (ten years later) is in cornering him ten years ago and today, you focused on whether he had sex with her not the fact that he spent the night with another woman while you slept. I had bad vibes about her from the beginning she was entirely too friendly in our male dominated workplace. How about when he says I know you dont believe me? Or gives me access to his facebook so I can check, gives me his phone so I can go through his texts ( I dont)He does face me (the bellybutton rule) when I confront him, his voice doesnt change, he doesnt get angry.But he refuses to go to counseling and says he wants to move on with his life.. Tell me what three things you most want to see happen with your husband and your life. I still suffer from PTSD. I found out by placing a tape recorder in the house and in his vehicle. I dont get it. Had nothing to do with the fact that he spent all day Sunday with his ex wife and kids? He has been really attentive and we make love often (but we used to before anyway) but still the doubts creep in. Hes a cheater! Youre picking up on signals and signs, and your gut instincts arent wrong. You would not do those things to him! I Dont really know what to do. What do you love more, your husband or your pills? There is something going on. Theyll survive and bounce back kids are resilient especially if you maintain a healthy, strong attitude. My wife had a roving eye despite the fact that Im hotter (both physically and emotionally) than anybody she ever cheated with. Perhaps he cheated because he felt you withheld sex; however, youre likely going to want to work at your marriage before youre intimate with him again. Just think about how happy well be in our happy little house. Shed found a rental in the neighborhood for him to move out into, 3 bedrooms so the boys could go back and forth. I dont know if hes cheating or not, but I know my husband doesnt usually bring up subjects that he doesnt want to talk about! What did you do are you still involved? I feel he had sex with her and didnt want me to know so he made the story up. I cant tell you how you should or should not feel. I am sorry this is happening, but you are very young and have your whole life ahead. he said he can haddle it we should just work out our problems then we got married . He alluded that he is cheating on me again, and I just feel sick. I wish you happiness and please dont give in to him. I never asked him about it again but it was always on my mind. Then my husband finally confessed that they were having virtual sex (he swears nothing physical happened). He cuddles with me at night for about 5 minutes, never leads to anything sexual. Beyond Affairs. I dont know if hes cheating or not, but am 100% sure that this isnt a good way to live! I saw chat between him and this girl (from the same last duty station country), they try to meet up several times. Baloney. I talked to several of the girls he had been with and he told them the same thing your guy did. You are going to keep feeling destroyed and worthless and hurting for as long as you try to stay connected to this man who has proven his untrustworthiness! I am sure because his patience is now wearing thin from all my accusations and worries. May you find the right person or people to support you as you journey forward. They stole my deceased fathers brand new truck and my car I had to purchase to replace the truck so I have wheels to get around. I feel like I have lived the past 15 years in hell with Satan himself!!! I look great for my age and look much younger than most 55 year old women. She KNEW he was deleting text. If youre looking to know if youre husband is cheating, there are certain ways you can catch him out: Once you have gathered that hes cheating in some manner, its time for you to collect as much information as possible. What do I do now.?. When I ask him to fix it he gets mad. I want more than just an apology and saying baby I love you. We basically just had phone conversations mostly through out 1 1/2 years. So much anger filled me right away. You are worth more! She told me somethings my husband had promised her about our business, and became upset when I denounced that with the implication that with 15 years vested in the business everything she saw was what we not he had. Oh theres more way more. The same goes for a woman who discovers a cheating husband and leaves her marriage. When I checked the history, I saw he had been viewing the profile of a 28 year old woman he works with (he is 50). Your marriage is sacred, and when your husband chooses to violate it, it leaves you feeling all kinds of emotions. But why cant I shake this feeling? You have to let him go, he will never change. after being together for a few months we got married and all I could think was how wonderful he was and what a blessing he is to me and my daughter. Otherwise, youre going to have to play detective. He just three days ago tried to strange me because I wanted to be alone and all of a sudden, he has turned into this Angel who all of a sudden wants to kiss me, touch me etc.. Well I think my husband is cheating also he texts other girls I snooped in his phone he told one girl he. A man who means his apology and won't cheat again will understand that. Dear Cris, thank you so much for being here! i trust him but not her.. reasons i thought she was my friend but she wont respond back from calls or texts from me. Which I regret to this day. He does not want to go to counseling. Thank you for sharing your experience here, with us. recently i asked him frankly abt it he laughed and said yes i have my mistress at office(in a kidding way) and then he replied by saying that he dont have any affair with any other ladies. I cant take it anymore. I am 47 years old and this is only the 3rd infection in my life. He asked if I have seen sextape movie with Cameron Diaz, and I was like not, do you. He never did. I try my best to forgive this man so when he gets better, when go to a food store and guess what, there girl is there he quikly goes up to her and bumps into her while Im standing there and they both laugh I turn and walk out to leave him there didnt have my cars keys.He comes out asking me what was wrong and when I tell him he calls me a lie. According to Gary Neuman, a womans intuition is the most important indicator that a man is cheating. He told me that she liked the idea that she could just pull a string and he woukd come running. He tells me 2 recieve his calls n do so many tins on his behave but why im i feelin dis way? Any advice would be appreciated! And the girl from the website i saw txt and emails *naughty pictures sent back and forth* and i did confront him about it because areound that time i found out i was pregnant. Trust your gut instincts, even though the answer might be painful. A teacher? When he leaves he doesnt come home for hours and when he does he smells like sex. He has cheated in the past, multiple times, before we were married. (he knew how they hated me so used them as an escape). men cheat, if they feel cheated. Y E S! I didnt ask him to deactivate his account that was his decision. Up to this day he hasnt told me where he was. It hurts oh so much, dont get me wrong, to admit and to face this, but I have to believe that when all the dust settles and the wounds are almost healed, I will beOK! I know my husband has had at least 3 affairs on me. Hes always gone on his off days early in the am til late in the pm and on his work days he dont come home after work. I LET THEM because I thought I was wrong!! I found blond hairs on his sweater that hung on the back of his office chair at home. Had she not placed that call I never would Have questioned him about this woman. To really get down to the truth, you have to ask your spouse directly. If I was working and one of my girlfriends from work sent a message like that he would make me respond to the message but he dont. Why Couples Fail After an Affair: A Four Part Series. Make Him the 3rd cord in your relationship which cannot be easily broken! It helps to know other women are going through the same thing. ive tried talking to one of his exes but he got super mad and blocked her from anything and everything but he still talks to her. Then, after all these years of emotional and verbal abuse, I finally realized there was a name for someone like him. I dont have all the answers, but I do have a few tips! Most of the questions seem to be coming from women who are in marriages or long term committed relationshipswhat do you think about handling cheating in new relationships? Also, did you ask him about the texts? When I ask him if he loves me,he says yes. Look back and have a good reality check to see if he was ever there for you or everything what you have in your life was only because of you. Me and my kids and his kids and her and his kids. While he was talking to her he was sitting next to me the whole time telling me he was talking to ppl about baby stuff. Please I need help. Your gut is telling you something, and you need to listen to it. Should I be suspicious that he is chatting with someone else and doesnt want it showing up on our bill? He saw that it bothered me and did nothing about it. But to me, I will never ever trust him anymore. The man is trying like Hell to cheat on you. Usually, the women posting describe behavior from their man that makes its even quite obvious that he is cheating. But most every night i stay wide awake. Our intimacy has came to a hault, we went from numberous times per day to maybe 1-3 times per month since March. i confronted him and he said their just friend and they got nothing to do with me they knows he is mined. He began coming over to comfort me letting me cry which I thought was out of a sincere care due to all the enormous grief I was suffering thru which I foolishly thought was outta kindness!!! I feel like crap, and cannot believe he would have dont that, but it seems rather apparent. Well one evening he came home after their father died and asked me if I was going to the wake. Do what works best for you both, not what anyone else tells you is right or wrong. My gut instinct was screaming!! His excuses was he was not happy. Try to save your marriage? I respect privacy even at my expense. Meanwhile, I just had a baby. I was a stay home mom until we agree to get divorce.now I dont know. i dont get how guys can be so messed up. Screw this guy. He rarely wants to discuss my concerns. I have been dating someone for 7 months. Every person is different. I told him that, at the time when he worked there, he told me she was an older woman. Tells me last night that our relationship is boring. He says that him and some co workers were looking at it together at dinner because another coworker got caught doing this. We used to have movie night with popcorn or game night with the kids. Out of all the nights to check and all of the times he deleted texts before coming home, this one night, he forgot. When you find out a husband or partner has been cheating with another woman, many wives feel embarrassed and want to hide this information. He admitted he told her not to email on his days off or at night because he would be with me. I assumed they were gifts for me for Valentines Day. nor any guy because of my past that every boyfriend that i hve ever been with has cheated on me. There is no excuse for infidelity of any kind. Your venting helped me put the missing pieces together. Don't give him a 50th chance. With this evidence to hand, youll be in a far better position to take the steps listed below. He is so much addict of it that I am pretending that all is fine around me . He said he emailed her afterward telling her I found the picture and they would not be contacting or emailing anymore. You never really stated just how you feel though so I cannot be sure. The ugliness must stop and you need help to stop it. One woman was even at our wedding. Well he tried to tell me indirectly that while i was a way he got into a over the net sexual afair by saying it was his friend. Does he insinuate you are crazy? since we met he is cheating with various women includes his wife. That feels like someone cheated on you. The wife of one of his friends wont tell me the truth about anything that happens, and neither will any of the guys. I hope this can help anyone out there. Specific genes makes men men more likely to cheat. We dont speak, she looks at the ground and leaves the room when I come in which I do some just to taunt her. I just went through this, the only difference is that we have four kids together. BUT when I try to step in your shoes and assess your risk, your risk is and you state that you risk losing his friendship. I am sure that in my shoes, and reasonable person would begin to start questioning the logic of ones partner when nothing about their decision makes logical or economical sense- and when it starts to overtly impact on ones relationship to the point that the intimacy vanishes I would be a fool not to consider the possibility that perhaps there was something else going on. I fully explained what I expected from our relationship and the balance of friends and romance time. I wanna break this relation but i am thinking about the kid. Id always said, I NEVER in a million years go with a married man! It was WRONG! My ex husband was cheating on me and lying about it. And when I confront him, he said its not true and he never sent any of those messages. We are in therapy just started but I am not sure that I can bear the pain of this deception and all. I tried to accept that and let it go, but time only made me more angry. Him and I got into a very heated argument a couple weeks ago. So you can see where Im thrown off. My heart has been torn out and Im not sure if our marriage is even worth working on now. It pisses me off more than ever but once again, its because I cant have him but I dont think I would even want him, bc of how he is lying to himself and his wife. But the caveat is that there are a lot of variants and factors that are not explained here that might impact whether someone cheats., Still, knowing that sexual personality characteristics and, for women, relationship factors are strong predictors suggests directions for therapeutic interventions, she said. I personally dont he think he would change. In your case, thats not what I got from what you described. She was very pretty she was wearing a black string binkini and had a perfect body. So we went through a bump but sorted it out, I forgave him because it was in the past and we stayed together. It did hurt him & it did break his trust on her. I actually believed him whenever he blamed me for things that were truly his fault! Is it like pulling teeth getting him to spend time with you? Dear Amy: I believe that my 45-year-old husband is having a midlife crisis, abusing drugs, cheating or possibly all three. What really can crash a feeble marriage is lack of communication. So I have NEVER suspected my husband of cheating til recently. That way, when he sees you next looking strong and beautiful, he will feel beyond guilty and desperate to win you back regardless of whether you want him or not. He swears im the only woman he loves and wants. I see the way he looks at me (which is awesome), and I know I take his breath away. He swears he didnt sleep with this woman (a co-worker) and I 99.9% believe him. I think of all what i read is reality and it happen i just want to share with others.anything of you want to do trust your instings and act ones. We saw counselors while he was in treatment and I expressed I felt he was truly in love with this woman. Hes not as interested in physical intimacy as he was before, He picks fights or starts arguments with you. Youve known him for four years, youve been intimate with him, youve probably heard him lie, and you know that he gets away with everything.and maybe you know the truth about whether hes cheating, but you dont want to admit it to yourself. And I saw this girls name as my husbands guest. Then other weeks, its as if he cant have enough sex with me. A married man took advantage of me 3 year ago. ON MY BIRTHDAY. I looked at him and with a heavy heart I said okay. Feeling weak because he was unfaithful? He is my first and only and i was so happless. Or, if you have a hobby like painting or sculpting, use this creative outlet to work through any emotions youre going through. I love my Husband so I too dont know what to do. You are worth more. Id talk to a counselor and divorce lawyer as soon as possible, just to start thinking about what lies ahead if you decide to leave. Have strength, have pride in yourself and ditch his ass. I asked my husband if he was cheating and he said no. Thanks for the book suggestion! Have you ever taken the responsibility for why your partner would cheat? Then 4 days ago i received our cell phone bill in the mail and we had been charged overage charges due to too many text messages. My children had such an unpredictable childhood and the guilt and shame I feel now only adds to the pain this man has caused me. He uses the extra chores as his excuse for always being tired. I found texts to an ex girlfriend where he sent pi of penis and dirty texts like wish I was there in bed with u Id keep I warm. Perhaps your spouse chose to save a couple of the steamy ones for later playback. But how do i tell him? If you have children, you do not want to show them this as an acceptable way to treat people, or allow yourself to be treated. For men, significant predictors of infidelity are personality variables, including propensity for sexual excitation (becoming easily aroused by many triggers and situations) and concern about sexual performance failure. after a few months move in together dont find we have sex but worried about being careful after a few months of feeling im just relieving him i say get condoms and he goes with it but leaves them in the car and when i ask he brings a few in not the packet i feel consantly the one asking to get pleasure .. then one day out the blue he gets a text with a list of calls he has to do for work and a kiss i confront him he tells me its bob which on his phone it was the name it was under so i apologise and say sorry then he has a call in the bedroom and it sounds like a woman bearing in mind close work collegues are men there only one woman who works for the company he tells me the call is a man and he says shhh to me stupid me i go silent and he walks out the door and im staring thinking im going mad . Or he wouldnt be working in counseling to work things out! I dont know what else to do. They been together over 23 years but married 17 years. Recently he had to go out of town for work in the oil field for 6 weeks. Nope!!! He stop the cheating for 9 years until two years ago he had a 4 month relationship with a lady 10 years older than him who was paying for the hotel to have him. He has always been a salesperson. And that once again shattered my heart in a million pieces. my husband always had a very abusive personality in all senses. I was invisible there. Home About Us The First Step Read or Listen What We Offer Reviews Contact. (I was raised from a Christian home with parents who are still together to this day.). That area in a marriage should always be up for discussion, never hid or kept secret like an affair because surprisingly some women may be opt to get more comfortable with your hobbies and of course others may not. I dont know if this is a connection or if I am just being paranoid. There is and was nothing going on between us but a friendshipwell I thought. He said he wanted to reconcile and I told him I didnt know if that was possible . I wanted to jump in here so youd know youre not alone! what can I do? But this last time, he told me he just wanted to see another womans naked body!!!! Hes only told me he loves me twice in the entire year and it was more at the 3 month mark, not so much anytime in the past few months. I confronted him the next day about this and he admitted he had a crush on her but that nothing happened between them. Or get a divorce. Faithfulness is difficult for some but very do-able! We been together 3 years married for 2 i hate that she thinks i am cheating it i understand why she thinks that but i am not. At least if you want something exclusive with this man. And from the way she tells the story sex was involved. All because i wanted to keep a spark in our marriage. Apr 21, 2013. The truth is I never had a reason to distrust either of them until then. Then for 2011 i thought this would be the year life would turn around for us.. Little did i know he would pull another trick and ask my neice to do dirty things with him.. When confronted about having an affair he gets very defensive. I honestly dont know what to think about this. So, your future husband may not be lying about cheating (unless of course you believe that visiting a cheating website is cheating, which I do). Really? Krizen, you have a few problems here. when i would ask husband whats going on he would say he was only being nice. Xox. :). The hook up well. He has really changed for the worst. They say it is simply over the kids, but I feel there is something more going on. You did the right thing by telling your mom that he cheated. Im expecting some money to come in from my previous employer, a nice severance package. We have four kids, our youngest 8months old. Pretty sure its severely cracked or broken. Fast forward to 3 days ago, he says they dont talk well I had somehow managed to get on his snapchat and saw that they had been talking. Once while he was gone I didnt hear from him for 3 days. To make a long story short, I know that he is still seeing her. Im such a bright educated woman yet Im so alone. when i finish the coursce i went back to my town he come to my flat telling me lot of stories which i did not believe him couse was not having trust on him. No hand holding no romance pretty much nothing!!! The reason why this happens lies in the twin forces of ego and a concept called cognitive dissonance. I have decided that it is time to move on with my life and we have three children in the midst of this. Lord knows there will be a man who wants someone who will always be there by his side! I really hope youve found strength since you wrote this Im praying for you! That will require following him & having definitive evidence to give to him. As someone who was cheated on, I know all too well the pain, humiliation, and, at least in my case, the feelings of worthlessness that came with it. I know that the trust that i felt will never be the same. He mentioned once, after they got married how he has to stop talking to me, that she almost found out. He asked me if I put it there but I denied it. https://theadventurouswriter.com/quipstipsrelationships/how-to-forgive-and-trust-him-after-he-cheated-on-you/. He cried and threw up and then later said.. may i date you? Hi. I showed him an article about an Emotional Affair and he told me he didnt realize that what he did was considered that, but accepts that now. I found out he cheated in the past because he has two girls younger than our children. None of those are an accuse, but a small chance that a therapist could help. I just found out my ex husband has been dating someone he met at work while we are married. It sounds like you and your daughter are very close! This means that your husbands friends have a very real, direct effect on your marriage. Received blow jobs from strangers at truck stops. Sometimes couple of times in a month. What do YOU think? I never confronted him on it. are you both in couselling course? He doesnt ask any questions about me and when I ask him stuff, he keeps it short and sweet. I do not know if he regrets that decision (although I personally think he does at some level). Get yourself on the treadmill and run it out. Stop blaming him. I think you need to decide what resolution you need before you can walk away. im not miseryabl at all im very happy all the time but just this moment i cant anymore i want to die but my boys and my parents and brother and my sster and my neices and my brothers and my boys more i dont want him to make my kids said anymore cause he yells alot he is wonder ful withthere educaton very strick but like a simple like a glass og water spills it not good my kids when they do somthing they are scaried like mom they tell me im fine it nothing it fixable or whatever we can clean it up but they are freighten wha i would do but whenthey tell me im okay about it aww poor babaies well sorry for typos but im sure u cant makeitout and it funny all the crap i have expericened i say to myself to write a book he dont put his hands on me at all its his brain i reAlly think he had the bypolor or whatever it could be but he smart. Im the only woman he loves me, i finally realized there was name! 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